10 Things Expats Tell You Not To Do In Paris – But They're Wrong!

If you lived in Paris (stop drooling!) you probably wouldn't stroll along the banks of the Seine every day. If you lived in Paris you would avoid popular tourist areas like the Eiffel Tower and Notre Dame. If you lived in Paris it's unlikely you would visit the Pantheon or the Louvre on a weekly basis.

But you don't live in Paris — you're a visitor. Expats who do live here can give you good advice, but don't listen to everything they tell you. They live in Paris. You don't. Here's where they go wrong —

1. Do Some Touristy Things

You are, in fact, a tourist, so it's okay to do things Parisians don't do every day. Visit the Louvre (but book a guided tour) in advance. Go on a Seine River dinner cruise. Sign up for a food tour & wine of Montmartre. Walk around Île St Louis. Stroll through Saint-Germain-des-Prés and revel in the history and the shopping. And don't forget to visit Le Bon Marché on the Left Bank.

2. Seek Out French Food

Expats will tell you how much they love the latest sushi bar, Thai takeaway joint, or Indian restaurant. We say, "No thanks". You can find these international foods in your home town. In Paris eat the local cuisine. French food is worth crossing an ocean for, so make sure you don't miss it. Confit de canard, croque monsieur, frites, soupe l'oignon…

Bon appétit !

3. Smile

Expats may tell you not to, that nobody smiles in Paris, that it's somehow akin to a chimpanzee's smile that is really a grimace. But guess what? Sometimes a smile gets you the best service, the most help, the friendliest greeting. And, it's nice being nice.

4. Wear Flats

We've read expats encouraging visitors to wear heels comme les Parisiennes (like the locals), but (once again) guess what? Those women in Paris have been practicing high-heel walking for years (even riding bikes in them!) and, besides, they're not going to be clocking in several kilometres every day. Don't wear hiking boots or ugly runners, for heaven's sake, but make sure you can last an entire day in your sensible yet attractive shoes.

5. Don't Worry About Speaking (Much) French

The only French words will need are — bonjour, bonsoir, merci, madame, monsieur, excusez-moi, and au revoir. C'est tout ! Almost everyone you're likely to deal with is going to speak far better English than you can hope to speak French.

6. Ask For Directions

Even the locals do it. Of course, be polite, but that's just common sense, right? This is where you trot out a couple of the French words you've been practicing , always starting with, "Excusez-moi, monsieur ?"

7. Take A Hop-On-Hop-Off Bus Tour

We know, we know — it's touristy. But you're a tourist and you're probably not going to find yourself in Paris again anytime soon. So, make the most of your holidaying time by taking a few tours on buses and boats to get an overview of the city.

8. Give Up Your Low-Fat, Vegan, Paleo, Low-Carb, Teetotaling, Weight-Watcher's Diet

Don't listen to advice for vegetarian and macrobiotic restaurants or wine-free luncheons. Be a part of the Paris culinary scene and enjoy the exhilarating food culture of the country that invented fine dining — full fats, pastries, breads, cheeses, sausages, sauces, and of course, wine.

By the way, you may be surprised to discover that the portions served in France are smaller, yet still satisfying.

9. Buy Paris Memorabilia

Expats (of course) think it's kitschy to have Eiffel Tower memorabilia on your fireplace mantle at home (are you looking at us?), but these are mementos of wonderful days spent in the City of Love, of Music, of Art, of Memories.

10. Have Fun!

You're not in Paris to impress anyone, you're here to have fun. (Of course, that doesn't mean that we approve of you wearing sweats, ugly running shoes, and a fanny pack!) Want to take a selfie in front of the Eiffel Tower? Go for it.

Summary: Your Own Private Paris

Expats will offer their sage advice, but don't let it keep you from having your own moments of discovery, missteps, and triumphs. Paris is a city to savor, not stress over. So stroll the boulevards, sip your wine, and practice your merci. After all, the magic of Paris lies not in perfection but in the unexpected. Bon séjour, and enjoy every moment!