If you're like us, you look forward to dining in the restaurants Parisians favor; those Paris eateries service up classic French food. Unfortunately, by following the wrong advice, you may find yourself in a place just a little too noisy and a little too filled with visitors. Not to worry — with a few handy tips and tricks, you can avoid making new friends from Michigan and make dining friends with Parisians, while eating at some of the most enjoyable restaurants in Paris. We've had the privilege of dining at some of the most wonderful bistros & brasseries and we're glad to share our time-tested Paris Insiders restaurant tips.

1. Beware La Presse

You may want to avoid Paris restaurants that have received too much buzz in the American press. If you're looking to be dining with Parisians, check the French press before you leave home — the Michelin Guide, Gault & Millau, or the Paris daily newspaper Le Monde are good ways to start.

We remember arriving at Alain Ducasse's Aux Lyonnais in the Bourse district. At the time it was receiving plenty of ink in USA newspapers and magazines. As soon as we were seated, we could hear loud English voices… everywhere. Unfortunately, the restaurant is like a fish bowl and we couldn't hear ourselves think. We decided to make an exit, shouting out our farewell to the maitre d' on the way out. Luckily, nearby we found Chez Clementine (in the 2nd), a quaint place where the patrons were all French. Now, mind you, we don't often leave a restaurant, but we do like to make sure we have a good experience.

2. Dine Later

One surefire tip to avoid a tourist crowd is to dine later. Make your reservations for 9 PM and you're much more likely to be seated with les Françaises. Arrive at 7 PM and you'll find yourself among fellow travelers. It may take a little adjustment to dine later, but once you do, you'll begin to feel like a local. And, it's lovely walking home later, when Paris is alight, traffic is slower, and the city feels even more magical.

3. Head Off the Tourist Trail

There are wonderful restaurants in all areas of Paris including tourist destinations like the Champs-Elysées, the Eiffel Tower, Notre Dame, and the Louvre. Pay attention and you can avoid les tourist traps. One simple way is to wander a block or two away. For instance, just a a short walk across a bridge from tourist-popular Île Saint-Louis is one of our perennial favorite eating spots — La Rotisserie d'Argent, the bistro of the more famous, more expensive Tour d'Argent across the street. It's elegant, uncrowded, and the food is fantastic.

Avoid restaurants in the middle of the action with loud, garish signs advertising they speak your language and boast English menus. Just keep on walking, boots. (Cue the horns.)

4. Ask Your Hotel Concierge

Years ago, when we were Paris newbies (okay, it was a lot of years ago), we dined at Bofinger, a popular historic bistro attracting an international clientele. Quel dommage, it was a pity, but we were exiled upstairs in the equivalent of restaurant Siberia — a dark corner with little charm.

When we shared the experience with our hotel concierge she told us, "If you would have asked, I would have sent you to an historic neighborhood restaurant I love." We dined there the next night and voila, we were in vintage bistro heaven with Belle Epoque etched mirrors, a zinc bar, and a dazzling menu filled with the classics.

5. Vary Your Restaurant Experiences

If you are a serious food lover, we recommend you plan your Paris restaurants much like you'd write a piece of music — use all the notes. Be sure to dine at a local wine bar, splurge on a Michelin-star restaurant meal, find an historic bistro, and lunch at a neighborhood small cafe.

We love organizing our one splurge meal in Paris by studying the special menus offered at the super-luxurious restaurants. Many of the 3-star restaurants like Le Bristol, Le Grand Vefour, Pierre Gagnaire, Le Cinq, Pavillon Ledoyen, Le Pre Catalan, and Guy Savoy offer lower-cost tasting menus that cost a fraction of the a la carte menu. To us, it's the best money we've spent in Paris. A special menu might cost a few hundred euros for two people, but the memories last long after your trip. We can still remember fondly our first meal years ago at Pierre Gagnaire.

6. If You Want to be Treated like a Local, Act Like One

We've covered this topic often, but it bears repeating. Dine like a local. This means, for instance —

• not asking for substitutions
• not asking for a salad as a meal
• not asking to share a meal

A three-course meal is standard in Paris restaurants and the portion sizes are just right. Look around, you will be surrounded by healthy French people who are all eating three-course meals including dessert, often a cheese course, plus wine. That's how you act like a local.

7. Eat at (Parisian) Meal Times

The French eat lunch from noon to 2 PM, and dinner from 7 PM to 10 PM. Yes, there are exceptions to this rule, but if you plan your meals around the French dining clock, you will be happier and better fed. Also get used to the idea that breakfast is not the most important meal of the day. Have a light breakfast (croissants and coffee are the major breakfast food groups) and save your appetite for a long leisurely lunch, when many Parisian businesses (and even food markets) close for le déjeuner.

8. Sometimes You Just Have Bad Luck

When you're in "discovery" mode, not every meal at a new restaurant will light up your Christmas tree. Don't worry, though. If the last meal disappointed you, just shrug it off (crossing that restaurant off the list) and look forward to your next one. Although by far most of our Paris meals have been very good to memorable (like Chez Clementine, Pierre Gagnaire, and La Rotisserie d'Argent) there have been a few restaurant disappointments (like Bofinger). Oh well, demain est un autre jour — tomorrow is another day, and another meal.

9. Get the Michelin Red Guide

This is the gold standard and the secret weapon for French diners when they are researching where to eat in Paris. The guide covers 1-, 2- and 3-star restaurants (three stars is the maximum Michelin awards), but any place that is included in the Guide, starred or not, is worth your consideration. We prefer to own each year's Guide, but Michelin's Paris restaurant website is very useful.

In our experience, Michelin 1-star restaurants are the best value, often stellar restaurants not often noticed by the North American press. We've also found that 2-star restaurants oftentimes deliver the same satisfaction (in service and cooking) as many of the 3-stars.

Being recognized by the Michelin Guide is what all French chefs aspire to, that's what we've discovered in the dozens of interviews we have conducted in leading restaurants in the country. As Chef Chef Frédéric Robert at the highly-recommended La Grande Cascade told us, "Michelin is the guide that is important. The others do not matter."

10. Final Words of Paris Dining Advice

Two things to remember are (1) tipping is not necessary and (2) you will not receive your bill until you ask for it. Some first-time visitors get tripped up on these two points. First of all, a 19% tip for the server is already included on your bill. That's what the words "service compris" mean. Second, your server is not being rude by not delivering your bill. It's actually good French server manners to only deliver the bill when it's asked for. They don't want to make you feel like you're being rushed out of the restaurant.